Lola Is .. Part 2


I Deserve It All






A different kind of pain

They tell me my life doesn’t matter
My tears don’t affect them
I’m less of a person
And it’s all because of  my skin tone
And it’s because of how I wear my hair
How I speak
They say if I don’t get it together I’ll be next
I’m a renegade
A problem
Something like a black women
Not giving a fuck
with pride
And they don’t like that

I Love Your Body

I love your body blog post

Loving your body doesn’t always start at the gym or in a doctor’s office. It starts with you and only you. Here are a few things I’ve learned to help me become more comfortable with my body and have helped me learn to love my body.These are things that worked for me. There is no guarantee that it will work for you but it doesn’t hurt to try.

Take A Picture

Simple, take a picture. Naked or in lingerie. Take a sexy picture and look at it. Really look at it . Notice all your stretch marks ,scars, weird hairs , pimples and know that it’s normal and it’s beautiful. If you happen to be going through a huge transformation. Take a picture. See how far you’ve come. Before and after pictures are a great motivation.

Eat Good

You eat better you feel better. When you feel sluggish and gross from eating junk it can affect the way you look at yourself. Get rid of it ! all of it. Only eat dirty in moderation.

Working Out

For the same reason why you should eat better you should also be working out. Working out also helps with anxiety, stress,and builds stamina. It’s not just for getting an awesome bod. It helps your mind too !

Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People

This is something I still sometimes struggle with. I know it’s hard. When your always on Instagram and you see everyone living their best life . You can’t help but think “why not me !”. Well slow your roll ,your time is coming. Everyone glows up at their own pace ! Trust me love, you’ll be stuntin on em soon enough.


Affirmations are sayings you repeat to your self out loud that encourage positivity and growth. You can find some on Pinterest ,Youtube,or Google.I suggest downloading the app Selfishbabe. It’s an amazing app and you get daily affirmations right on your phone !




Poetry · Pride


Land of the free
Home of the brave
The place you were born
Where your people were enslaved
All decked out in red,white and blue
Follow the “dress code”
So they don’t assume
Who knew there were so many ways to die
When your black in america
If I didn’t know any better
I’d think they were trying to get rid of us

Life · Love · Poetry · Pride

They Call Me Slut

So you call me a slut
You are disgusted by my sexualty
How I give my love away
And I still walk with confidence
And still have the nerve to expect respect as if i’m a virgin